Parents around the country have celebrated their son or daughter’s graduations by giving money, clothes, watches and parties. Now, at the parties, in between streamers and gold balloons are toasts to determination and success and then the music starts. Has the party begun yet, or is it only when the underage guests arrive half blitzed or with six pack in hand? These parents learned the hard way that despite a zero tolerance message and trusting their child, things got out of hand. Somehow, someway teens get alcohol and then everyone gets either slammed or put in the slammer. Not a good outcome.